Love What You Love, Respect What You Dislike
Love what you love and enjoy what you like. Face it directly, focus on it, and immerse yourself in it to embrace your passion. Don’t worry who approves or disapproves What you cherish is where your happiness, passion, and sense of fulfillment reside. If you ever feel shy, hesitant, or torn about what you love, don’t be afraid, don’t hide, and don’t blame yourself. Forgive yourself, for you were once a child. It’s time to grow into someone who confronts it, pursues it, and deserves it.
On the other hand, just as there are things or people you enjoy , there will always be others you dislike or even hate. Don’t fear these feelings, and don’t lie to yourself. Respect your emotions first, and then you’ll be able to deal with you detest . There’s no doubt that everyone is created equal yet unique. You shouldn’t force yourself to accept what makes you feel uncomfortable or miserable.
So why do so many people find themselves trapped ,unable to stop wasting energy on hating, complaining, or even pretending to like what they despise ? This struggle is deeply rooted in human history and culture, shaped by scarcity and hierarchies of power.
Imagine the agricultural past:most people survived through their land.If a beautiful girl lived in a village,many young men admired her,but usually,only the top few could win her. On the larger scale,an emperor controlled everything his army could reach.If a man dared to challenge him or for a woman he adored, he risk danger or even death.So hiding what you loved and obeying what you hated became a way for most men to survive.Over time,those who adapted-often the weaker or less rebellious-passed down their traits, shaping our instincts.
Then came commercial trade and business, and everything changed,even flipped upside down. Picture that same village: a farmer’s son loves a girl already claimed by upper-class boy.Instead of accepting his fate, he leaves to seek his own path. Along his journey,he might meet new who captivates him. He also could trade with others, build a business, grow wealthy, and gain influence. Commerce breaks the chains of scarcity, sets everything in motion, brings prosperity, and dismantles old power structures.
Those rigid hierarchies can’t lead most people to a better life-they rely on empty promises and often drag us into misery disguised as paradise. In today’s commercial world, everyone should love they enjoy, concentrate on it, and embrace it fully. Respect what you hate, step away from it, and don’t dwell on it. No matter what you do, set yourself apart from others, because your uniqueness is your greatest value. The more you understand who you are—what you are good at and what you are not—the more you’ll achieve. All this stems from your love and hate, fueling the passion and energy to think, try, fail, stand up, and grow every day.That’s what builds a rich, fulfilling life-the one you deserve. Open your heart to the open society,unshackled by oppressive forces.
